Sharon Lopatka dies when kinky online torture sex goes wrong

In 1996, the olden days of online hookups, Sharon Lopatka found the man of her dreams on the Internet. Granted, her dreams were unconventional. Lopatka’s come-on involved just one “dimension of compatibility,” not eHarmony’s 29. Posting in an alt.sex newsgroup she asked, “Want to talk about torturing to death?” She added, “I hope you all don’t think I'm strange or anything.” Some did, but at least one didn’t. And the story of how they got together and what happened when they did set a very high standard for Internet interpersonal nuttiness.

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 For two months, NanConcentric and Slowhand exchanged dozens of graphic messages about violent sexual fantasies. Police later said a printout of their dirty talk — retrieved from Lopatka’s computer — went on for 870 pages. Investigators said Lopatka made it clear in the messages that strangulation during sex was her ultimate fantasy. In turn, police said, Glass ‘described in detail how Slowhand was going to sexually torture … and ultimately kill her.”

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