'Die, my daughter, die!' An old-world 'honor killing' in modern St. Louis

Like many teenagers, Tina Isa didn’t listen to her parents. They lived in different worlds, in effect. Her father, Zein Isa, was a Palestinian Muslim with Old World ideas about how his child should and should not behave. His wife, Maria, a Brazilian Catholic, was more a martinet than a mother. But Tina was a headstrong modern girl growing up in big-city St. Louis, not some medieval village. At age 16, she was a bright senior honors student at rugged Roosevelt High School. She dreamed of studying aeronautics in college. She wanted to learn to fly. She liked hip hop music and giggled with girlfriends about cute boys.

“She was so American,” a schoolmate said. Zein and Maria Isa tried to keep their daughter — the youngest of four — on a short leash. They discouraged her from playing sports and forbid her from going on school trips. Her father decreed that she was destined for an arranged marriage with a good Muslim from his West Bank hometown. She was not allowed to date or take a job. When she managed to steal away to the junior prom, they tracked her down and hauled her home. Six weeks into Tina’s senior year, her parents began the process of withdrawing her from school for disobeying “family rules.” During a conference with the girl’s guidance counselor, Maria Isa described her daughter as a “tramp” and a “whore.”

On Nov. 6, 1989, Tina was late coming home. Her parents were waiting, glaring through the windows, as a classmate — a boy she had secretly begun dating — walked her to the door. When she stepped inside, her mother fumed, “Where were you, bitch?” Tina explained that she had taken a part-time job at a Wendy’s restaurant a mile from home and had just finished her first shift. “We do not accept that — to work!” shouted her father. He raged about fornication with the boy and called his daughter a “she-devil.” For several minutes, they argued in a mix of English and Arabic about whether Tina would be allowed to continue living with her parents. “Come on, throw me out!” Tina said. “OK, here is my key.”

During the argument, Maria Isa searched Tina’s school bag, interrogating her about shoes, books and a newspaper she found inside. The father suddenly cut off the conversation. “Listen, my dear daughter, do you know that this is the last day?” Zein Isa said. “Huh?” Tina replied. “Do you know that you are going to die tonight?” When he returned from the kitchen with a 7-inch boning knife, Tina grasped that he was serious. She cried out, “Mother, please help me!” “What help?” the mother replied. “Are you going to listen? Are you going to listen?” “Yes! Yes! Yes, I am!”

But it was too late. As her mother pinned the screaming girl to the living room floor, her father raised the knife and buried it in her left breast six times. “No! Please!” she shouted. “Shut up!” her mother replied. “Die! Die quickly!” said the father. After one final death groan, he added, “Quiet, little one! Die, my daughter, die!” The parents then called 911 to announce that Tina had attacked them. Zein Isa told police he had killed her in self-defense. St. Louis detectives were trying to make sense of the case the next day when they were contacted by the FBI.

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